The World Needs Your Passion

CLOSE 
Please login or register before reporting abusive content.

Click here to log in

Click here to register

2
Posted by: Corrina Gordon-Barnes


We hear a lot of wake-up calls about our planet and its future. Climate change, peak oil. We know there is an urgency about the situation and that we are being called upon to act now.

And yet when we look at HOW we’re being called upon to act, we can see that the messages so often relate to us as consumers. Individuals who have a duty to make a difference in the privacy of our own individual lives. Turn our lights off, stop flying, don’t use plastic bags. These activities are, of course, useful. And yet, all the while that ‘consumer’ is our primary identity, we are trying to solve our world’s crisis with the same level of thinking that created the problems in the first place.

Maybe there is somewhere else to look, and another way to look, and maybe it has something to do with what our true ‘duty’ is.

We have long associated doing our duty with sacrifice. We have contorted ourselves into jobs which don’t suit us and which don’t suit humanity or our planet. Meanwhile, our passions have become hobbies – something we do in our spare time, just for us. Following our hearts, responding to our passion’s call, have been sneered at as luxuries that only some of us can afford.

So here’s another perspective… Our duty is to leave the job we don’t enjoy, the lifestyle that doesn’t fulfil us, and follow our passion. When we look at how interdependent we humans truly are, we can suddenly see that staying in that unfulfilling job is a selfish act. We can see how not following our passion, not doing what we feel called to do, is selfish. Our duty, in actual fact, is to sacrifice the drudgery, the complaining, the settling and the plodding, and devote ourselves to discovering and acting upon our deepest desire to contribute.

Yes, there have been compelling wake-up calls. Yet as far as I know, no-one has come knocking on your door as you watch TV, thankful for having survived another monotonous day, and looked at you in amazement, shouting: “Excuse me!? What are you doing?? We need you!” They haven’t engaged the most magnificent version of you, they haven’t called you to step up and be all that you can be and offer that to the world.

Consider these words that knock. That wake-up call you have secretly yearned for – that one which says – you are needed. You are so, so needed. Yes, you are being asked to reduce your carbon footprint. This is vitally important. But you are also being asked to increase your contribution footprint. The kind of footprint your heart is calling for you to leave.

The big lie has been that you don’t really matter. We have created a society which has made it so easy to forget that we are needed. Cheap oil has created the foundation for an industrialised nation which has positioned us as consumers instead of contributors. Cheap oil as our primary resource has distracted us from the realisation that we are all precious resources. We have deemed it acceptable to waste our potential, just as we have decided it was okay to squander the planet’s natural resources. The truth is: you are one of our planet’s natural resources. You are a vital source of energy. You are also a finite resource. One day, you too will run out. We only have a brief moment in history in which to fully experience your unique gifts. Let us use you efficiently while you’re still here.

As our society transitions from high-carbon to low-carbon, as humans transition from seeing ourselves as separate to recognising that we are interdependent, I invite you to find your place within that transition. Hear this as a call of gentle urgency. Not a panic that will blind you and trip you up. Not gentle that lets you disappear quietly back to ‘business as usual’. Gently urgent in an “I’m holding you, let’s do this, there is no time to lose” way.

“Let’s do this” means asking yourself these questions: What are you truly passionate about? When do you feel most alive? What is your unique contribution to our society – that thing that only you can do in exactly the way you do it?

Among us, there are people who can turn old plastics into jewellery, teach children to cook, inspire an MP, design sustainable homes, chair community meetings, give healing massages, forage for wild food, create powerful film documentaries, write songs and make clothes. When we hold back our contribution, our community suffers. We deprive our community, just as we deprive ourselves of the pleasure of offering our gift.

Let’s not make up that one gift is more needed than another, someone’s talent more ‘eco’ than someone else’s. If we do that, we fall into the same trap of creating hierarchies between species and between people that, again, has caused our problems in the first place. It is not just the obvious environmentally useful skills, such as permaculture, that are needed in the transition years. We need people who can tell jokes, organise offices, care for children, counsel relationships. People who know how to clean buildings, paint, spread the word, design websites, campaign for justice. There is such truth in that beautiful quote by Howard Thurman: “Do not ask what the world needs. Ask what makes you come alive. The world needs more people who have come alive.”

Start right now. Do not wait to find your life’s purpose or ‘get it right’. Start right now to see yourself as a contributor, not a consumer. If you love writing, put fingers to keyboard or pen to paper. If you love gardening, ask your neighbour if they’d like to learn some new skills. If you work with kids, read them a story about how interconnected all of nature is.

Whether your passion is x or y, j or g, just do it. Do it, do it, and commit to doing it forever. Know that your passion is not just about you, it’s about all of us. There really is no more time to waste you.

(c) Corrina Gordon-Barnes, 2008

Corrina Gordon-Barnes is passionate about people realising how important they are. She works with women who are frustrated at not fulfilling their potential; through one-to-one coaching, workshops, talks & writing, she helps them find their unique 'contribution footprint'.

Subscribe to her FREE twice-monthly ezine, The World Needs Your Passion, via her website (below) and feel motivated and supported as you turn your ideas into reality.

http://www.youinspireme.co.uk/


Listed In: lifestyle , ooffoo laureate , passion , footprint

Created on: 29/12/2008
Last edited on: 11/03/2010

The Ooffoo Latest:
If you like the above then you'll love being kept up to date with 'The Ooffoo Latest' email newsletter. Keep on top of the latest news, tips, articles, recipes, listings, competition info, debates, special offers and much more all happening on ooffoo.com - It's 100% FREE and you can unsubscribe at any time of course Signup here!


Comments about this listing

Brilliant! Brilliant! Brilliant!

So so true and we can all learn from you. Thanks for stepping into your passion and inspiring the community at large.

CLOSE 
Please login or register before reporting abusive content.

Click here to log in

Click here to register

Posted By: Jude
Date Posted: 09/01/2009 15:55
love love love!!!

that is amazing, truly touching words and it is that simple..... it just takes people stepping out of their norm .....why is it people are so afraid of that?


CLOSE 
Please login or register before reporting abusive content.

Click here to log in

Click here to register

Posted By: Leanne Tucker
Date Posted: 17/01/2009 01:20
Congratulations, Corrina; I'm so pleased for you that your wonderful, inspiring and passionate words have won the Ooffoo Laureate prize. It's well deserved and you have served the community well by sharing your vision.
Just imagine what the world would be like, if we all allowed our light to shine and we followed our passions :)
Awesome!

CLOSE 
Please login or register before reporting abusive content.

Click here to log in

Click here to register

Posted By: Rachelle Strauss
Date Posted: 20/03/2009 10:21
well done Corrina! your article was a true delight to read, and such an inspiring view of life. If only the all the world thought like this! Congratulations Ooffoo Laureate.

CLOSE 
Please login or register before reporting abusive content.

Click here to log in

Click here to register

Posted By: Sarah Pyne
Date Posted: 20/03/2009 10:51
A really heartfelt article and well deserved winner. Am feeling very inspired!

CLOSE 
Please login or register before reporting abusive content.

Click here to log in

Click here to register

Posted By: Tara Leaver
Date Posted: 20/03/2009 11:14
Excellent work Corrina! Your article is full of truth, essential insight and is extremely well written.

Thank you so much for this reminder that life is about so much more than the day to day drudgery we too often submerge ourselves in. I'm off to enjoy the sunshine x

CLOSE 
Please login or register before reporting abusive content.

Click here to log in

Click here to register

Posted By: Racheblue
Date Posted: 20/03/2009 14:35
Congratulations Corrina! Really beautiful. I love that - "[our] industrialised nation ... has positioned us as consumers instead of contributors". SO true. Reading that I just thought: that's right ... I actually don't WANT to consume as much as I want to BE consumed. By my passion for ... whatEVER that may be". Thank you for a brilliant reminder.

CLOSE 
Please login or register before reporting abusive content.

Click here to log in

Click here to register

Posted By: Clara
Date Posted: 20/03/2009 22:07
Great news! This article has just been featured in the Carnival of Positive Thinking:

http://tinyurl.com/copt103

CLOSE 
Please login or register before reporting abusive content.

Click here to log in

Click here to register

Posted By: ooffoo
Date Posted: 07/04/2009 09:42
Nice! LOLOL....thought provoking and punchy, but in a good way.

And I couldn't agree more.

Tracey Smith
Author of The Book of Rubbish Ideas

CLOSE 
Please login or register before reporting abusive content.

Click here to log in

Click here to register

Posted By: Tracey Smith
Date Posted: 07/04/2009 14:04
I really enjoyed your article and your views but I wonder how often thought is given to widows who have recently lost their husbands to cancer or other sad situations - they may be in their 60's or 70's and it seems that no one assumes they will have the old passion to make a real life. I fight with the apathy, numbness and sadness of that myself. What do you do to help people like me?

CLOSE 
Please login or register before reporting abusive content.

Click here to log in

Click here to register

Posted By: cindy
Date Posted: 08/04/2009 05:33
Cindy - I'm really moved by your question.

It puts me in mind of the worry I have for my Mum. She's not widowed ... Rather, she devotes her life to my Dad, as if he is her only passion... We try to encourage her to find other things to enjoy for herself as well, but she has little desire for that.

We worry about the prospect of her becoming a widow. What will she do then? Will there be an opportunity for her to find a passionate real life of her own? What could be said or done to help her?

On the other hand, my mother-in-law is the absolute opposite. 10 years older than my mum, she plays indoor hockey, wins line-dancing medals, goes on brilliant day trips and holidays, raids charity shops like a pirate and goes to see every "blow em up" blockbuster the local cinema screens!

She has found people and organisations who DO believe that women of age have passion and lust for life.

There is a woman called Marian van Eyk McCain who writes on ooffoo about, for and as a woman of age, maturity and wisdom. Her article:

http://www.ooffoo.com/listing/Healing-the-Split.aspx

is a lovely way to get to "know" her, and you could add her as a friend, and leave her a comment, or check our her websites.

I want to believe that there is time and space and resources for ANYone to find a fresh passion for life. 13, 33, 63, 83 ... It's what we all deserve, surely.

CLOSE 
Please login or register before reporting abusive content.

Click here to log in

Click here to register

Posted By: Clara
Date Posted: 08/04/2009 11:04
Hi Cindy, I just wanted to take a moment to reach out and say that I acknowledge and validate your post. I won't pretend to have an answer, but I want to let you know that you are heard.

You wrote "it seems that no one assumes they will have the old passion to make a real life. I fight with the apathy, numbness and sadness of that myself."

It sounds to me like you want to get rid of that assumption, and that you DO have the passion to make a real life? Is it that they apathy, numbness and sadness you talk of is something you want to be rid of? If so, I urge you to do it! If you are in your 60's or 70's then you have the wisdom of your years behind you to no longer care what others think!

How exciting to go out there and prove people wrong, to dig deep within your inner knowledge and find your passion and let it shine. Yes, there will be sad days and nights, but in between those dark times are times of great light and strength - on those days you can draw what you need to live your life with conviction.

I'm sending you a purple hat to wear next time you dance in the rain ;)

CLOSE 
Please login or register before reporting abusive content.

Click here to log in

Click here to register

Posted By: Rachelle Strauss
Date Posted: 09/04/2009 07:40
Good news! This article was just featured in the Small and Home Business Blog Carnival:

http://tinyurl.com/shbbApr09

CLOSE 
Please login or register before reporting abusive content.

Click here to log in

Click here to register

Posted By: ooffoo
Date Posted: 18/04/2009 13:05
Thank you so so much for all these beautiful comments and acknowledgements. It's been a complete honour to be connected with the Ooffoo community - what a supportive group of people, many of whom are doing exactly the kind of inspirational work I was writing about.

The points about older women... I've helped people aged 14-68 and age is certainly no barrier to living a life of passionate contribution. We have youthful elders and wise littl'uns amongst us, thank goodness, and each finds their own challenges and ways forward.

For anyone who wants practical strategies for finding and following YOUR contribution footprint, I write a fortnightly ezine, The World Needs Your Passion, which is free and easy to sign up for: see my website http://www.youinspireme.co.uk/

With love, delight & gratitude,
Corrina

CLOSE 
Please login or register before reporting abusive content.

Click here to log in

Click here to register

Posted By: Corrina Gordon-Barnes
Date Posted: 05/06/2009 12:23

Please login or register before adding comments.

Click here to log in

Click here to register

Preview of Comment ( )
This was printed from www.ooffoo.com
The tags listed below are a great place to start browsing or why not click the 'View All' button to see the Top 500 tags. 
CLOSE 
What are tags? Tags are essentially categories and are the key words that people use to describe their listings or articles. Any word can be used as a tag except for ones that are naughty and would probably not be repeatable in polite company.